Daniel Epstein
Your Relationship Guide for Deep Change
The lasting relationship you want is possible.
If you want to go on the journey to get there,
I can help you”
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Meet Your Relationship Guide - Daniel Epstein
I’m not here to fix you. And I’m not here to impress you with credentials.
What I offer is something quieter—and, I hope, more useful.
I work with people who want to stop performing in love and start showing up with honesty. People who are ready to look at the shutdowns, the spirals, the silence—and get curious, instead of scared.
As your guide, I help you untangle what’s yours, what’s your partner’s, and what lives in the space between.
Together, we slow down the autopilot, get underneath the stories, and start to rebuild from a place that’s real.
I draw from lived experience, 12-Step recovery, and relational therapy—but mostly, I draw from being fully here with you. Present. Clear. Caring.
You deserve that.
The Lasting Relationship You Want Is Possible
Relationships are hard—not because you're doing it wrong, but because at their best, they expose you. That’s the point. And it can be terrifying.
If you’ve been spinning, shutting down, or performing just to keep it together—you’re not broken. You’re probably just operating from old wiring.
As your relationship guide, I’m here to help you slow down, get honest, and finally tell the truth—first to yourself, then to your partner.
Because what you want—closeness, safety, desire, respect—isn’t out of reach. But you can’t overthink or over-give your way into real love.
This work begins when you stop pretending it’s fine.
If you’re ready to do the hard, human, honest work—I’ll walk with you.
This Work Isn’t for Everyone—
But It Might Be for YOU
Some people who come to me are..
in a relationship they’re unsure about
some are attracting emotionally unavailable partners
others might be losing themself trying to be the "perfect" partner
or wondering if what they want is even possible
Begin Your Journey to Lasting Love Through Honest Inner Work
I currently work with a small number of clients to help them get very honest about who they are, and heal relational patterns in order have lasting and deep loving connection. If you're interested in working with me, start by taking the gut check and filling out the application at the end.
Apply To
Work With Me
Most people say they want a healthy, loving relationship—but not everyone is ready to do the hard, sometimes frightening work of becoming honest with themselves enough to make it real. I’m not here to waste your time, or mine. My application process helps me see if you're ready for this kind of work—and if I’m the right relationship guide to walk alongside you.
Still unsure?
Unlearning What’s Not Ours to Carry
For many of us, life is a continuous process of deprogramming ourselves from harmful and untrue beliefs that were imprinted on us. As we allow ourselves to want what we want, and get honest, we are finally able to find self-compassion, deep love, and freedom.
What My Work Has Made Possible ✨
Listen to the IIMBSB PODCAST
If I May Be So Bold is a podcast I produce and host with my partner Justin. You can be a fly on the wall as she and I talk through the ups and downs of our relationship in real time.